I recall having an interesting — slightly unfriendly conversation with a dear feminist friend on a hot afternoon sometime in the past. I do not entirely recall the day, but it felt like a Wednesday, so let’s pretend that’s what it was. Anyway, I must make it clear that I entirely agree with the idea of feminism.…

You probably have some memories of long talks with your parents admonishing you on the dangers of keeping bad friends. As a young(er) man I remember finding those talks a little amusing. Not that I didn’t agree with the general point, it’s just that I couldn’t help but wonder, “what makes you think I’m not…